Real time response
Reframing in real time
Change the angle mid conversation, without changing the truth.
The gapRepeating the same frame more loudly when it did not land the first time.
When to use it
When you can see resistance or confusion arriving.
What you need
A partner who will misunderstand or push back on purpose.
The steps
- State the point.
- Watch for the resistance or the misunderstanding.
- Stop rather than repeating yourself.
- Identify what the current frame made them notice.
- Choose a different angle on the same truth.
- State it again from there.
- Check whether the resistance moved.
You know it worked when
You change the frame instead of raising the volume.
What else it works, and why
- Message
- The idea is expressed differently without losing its meaning.
- Connection
- The reframe is triggered by their resistance or misunderstanding.
Which drill is yours, in what order and at what dose, is not something a page can tell you. That is what a Discovery Call is for.
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