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Work on my communication

The drills

Observation and recalibration

Gap replay

Turn one failure into a correction you can see.

The gapKnowing it went wrong, without being able to show the difference.

Diagnostic · Skill gap · 20 minutes · needs a partner

When to use it

After a specific moment you keep returning to.

What you need

A partner to recreate the situation.

The steps

  1. Identify the failed moment.
  2. Recreate the situation.
  3. Perform it exactly as you did.
  4. Stop at the failure point.
  5. Identify the gap.
  6. Decide the replacement behaviour.
  7. Replay the same moment.
  8. Perform the corrected behaviour.
  9. Repeat until the difference is obvious.

You know it worked when

You can demonstrate the difference between the old behaviour and the new one.

What else it works, and why

Intent
You compare the intended communication with the outcome.
Message
You can locate where the message failed.
Delivery
The original delivery is compared with the corrected one.
Presence
You examine what state contributed to the failure.
Connection
It ultimately tests whether the corrected version lands differently.

Which drill is yours, in what order and at what dose, is not something a page can tell you. That is what a Discovery Call is for.

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