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The drills

Mastery and generalisation

Real world performance

Test it where the consequences are real.

The gapReliability that has only ever been measured in practice.

All five, coordinated · Skill gap · 20 minutes · on your own

When to use it

On an event that actually matters.

The steps

  1. Identify a real upcoming communication.
  2. Define the performance objective.
  3. Choose the single highest impact behaviour to watch.
  4. Do the real interaction.
  5. Do not try to perform every technique you have trained.
  6. Observe the actual result.
  7. Collect feedback if it is appropriate.
  8. Reflect.
  9. Compare intention with impact.
  10. Decide whether the capability is reliable.

You know it worked when

The behaviour produces a useful result outside the training environment.

Why all five, and not one

Intent
The objective has to survive everything else that is happening.
Message
What is said has to keep its structure while the rest moves.
Delivery
How it is expressed has to hold under the same conditions.
Presence
The state it is expressed from has to stay steady.
Connection
It still has to reach the person in front of you.

Which drill is yours, in what order and at what dose, is not something a page can tell you. That is what a Discovery Call is for.

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