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The frameworks

Questioning

Open, probe, clarify, close

Take a conversation from broad exploration to something specific enough to use.

Connection · Capability framework · No. 34

The shape

  1. Open
  2. Probe
  3. Clarify
  4. Close

Why that order

Beginning broad surfaces what you did not know to ask about. Narrowing turns it into something actionable. Doing either alone gives you a pleasant conversation or an interrogation.

A worked example

Open
Tell me what is happening with the project.
Probe
Where is the biggest difficulty?
Clarify
When you say requirements keep changing, who is changing them and at what stage?
Close
So the immediate issue is requirement stability. Let us start there.

What usually goes wrong

Closing too early, before there is enough on the table to close on.

Mostly serves Connection, and reaches into Intent and Message.

A framework tells you what shape the answer takes. It cannot tell you whether shape is what you are short of, and for most people it is not. Which one is yours, and whether a framework is the right instrument at all, is what a Discovery Call is for.

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